Traits of Toxic People

Prophetess Patience sermon on 17 November 2023.

There are a lot of people that spoke to me this week that they are suffering from relationship by people that are Narcissists. Narcissism can be practised in anybody's life . Who is a Narcissist? How do we know the trait of toxic people? Today our papa has prayed for us, he has decreed that evil alters will not stand. He has shown us that there are keys that evil alters use to lock people's destiny.

A lot of people today are dealing with mental health, not that they are sick or they lost their brain but because of circumstances surrounding them, the relationship they are in, the things that are happening daily to them. They have lost confidence. Why are people walking out on you? Why is it that you are not having consistent relationship? Why is it that when it is time for you to put things together in your relationship, something will just suddenly break both of you apart? Why is it that at the time of breakthrough, you begin to have conflict and all manner of problems? The world we are in today are full of a lot of things. If you listen to the news, if you don't know the word of God , if you don't know the Holy Spirit, you will not sleep at night.If you listen to television and radios, if you read the newspaper alot of people are having mental problems not that they are mentally sick but because of circumstances surrounding them in their immediate environment. some things they can't speakout. They turn around in the night, they can't work, they loose their mind, they forget what they are supposed to be doing. They look at life as if life is no longer worth living. This is the reason a lot of people commit suicide. You see a billionaire or millionaire suddenly will write a letter and leave the family with the letter and say I'm tired of this life. what is it? He must have dealt with Narcissist people or maybe him or herself was a Narcissist and could no longer control other people because they found out whom he or she is and they all left. I'm going to dive extensively into this topic because we are approaching our Thanksgiving. I spoke to a woman this week, this woman is in a relationship with the cousin of her friend and she never knew that this cousin of her friend is in relationship with both ladies. Now when they began to be more intimate to the point of wanting to really be together for the rest of their lives. Jealousy cropped into this woman that introduced her to her cousin and she began to manipulate this girl.This girl began to become sick every single day and when they brought the matter to me, I prayed and the Holy Spirit showed me everything. I know with this kind of matter you can't just say everything, you use wisdom to pass the message and I shared with them and said, listen, when you go into that house again, do not eat any food.

I prayed for the next seven days because everytime she comes, that her friend will just bring food but when she's eating this girl will remove her hand she will not eat and after eating she becomes sick, she will be vomiting, throwing up and she will not be able to go to work. I was praying and God showed me a vision but I could not speak it cordially because there are certain visions that are for an appointed time but I only told her from now on be careful of what you eat and where you go to eat. Abstain from food for the next seven days and see if you're going to get sick and the next day she went to that her friend that introduced her to the boy friend she heard that they are planning to get married. She brought food again, she looked at the food and the Holy Ghost reminded her of what the word of God said. She said no I don't want to eat today and the friend asked her what happened? 

The world we are in is full of toxic people. It is full of narcissistic people. you need to have the Holy Spirit in you to know those who are controlling, the manipulators, people that have passive aggregation, people that are self centred, people that are always negative, people who are difficult to control their anger. They make you feel bad about yourself. Anytime you're in their presence, all that they are saying is something bad about somebody that you end up feeling depressed yourself. They are manipulators. They never see anything wrong with themselves. They always see something wrong with somebody else. You are the reason why I failed my exams, you are the reason why I didn't go to work today, you are the reason why I didn't get this money today, you are the reason why I am not succeeding, you are the reason why my family is suffering today. They blame others for their failures. They can't control their mental abilities. I want to say to you, every Narcissist in your life, if he doesn't change the Lord will help you to find a path for your peace.

Signs that you're struggling with narcissism is when you're always blaming other people, never taking responsibility of what happened around you, living in the past. It is always about you. You need to see a counsellor when you feel stuck in a relationship or your job coupled with powerlessness to change the situation. If you're someone that is always feel crippled in terms of decision making, you have a problem but you can't move, you can't take a step. Take an action to change the circumstance. You don't have money, everyday you complain. Step out and look for work, apply for jobs, knock on doors ask someone to help you, fast and pray so that God will send you helpers. Don't just take your phone from one house to another seeking for someone that will sit with you and chat for hours.